Have you ever thought about why you buy things? What motivates us to consume so much for our kids ? Do we/ they really need all the "things" to have a happy and healthy childhood?
What good memories do you have about childhood? My guess is that they aren't related to all the "stuff" and more about "experiences" with those who mean the most to you.
Many of our purchases are made out of either HOPE or FEAR or LOVE?
We hope our children will be occupied for a period of time.
We hope our child will achieve some goal, if they have this item.
We hope to impress others by dressing our children in brand name clothes.
We hope to compensate for mommy guilt.
We fear that our children may miss out on some advantage if they don't have the "thing" right now!
We love the item (because of a memory).
We think our child will love it and use it over and over again - and sometimes this is true and sometimes it is not.
We love that it is trendy (but yet not a good fit for your child)
Perhaps consider your overall vision for your child and your child raising and use that to guide your decisions about what to purchase.
What's the dream? for your home? for you? for your children? for your family? for your relationships?
Mindset matters - act upon your mindset - with habits/routines and actions
Be intentional when considering the "items" that we purchase for our children
Is my life or my child's life more productive or happy with this item in it?
Is it supporting your dream or standing in your way?
Kids often get overwhelmed with too many clothes, too many toys, and too many choices.
Can I simply keep the amount of items that I can manage and be content with that?
As we move into the Holiday season and a new routine, it's a natural time to reset our spaces and belongings to best meet our needs at this time...move towards our DREAMS! It's a good time to reset or build routines and systems that involve all family members.
Suggestions:
1. Perhaps consider a no or low buy week or month or consuming mindfully, as you reassess the contents that you already have and manage everyday.
2. Become a member of The Wonder Room - Use our lending center and help your budget, your home space, your child's development, and the earth. Literally, you will have access to hundreds of dollars worth of toys, books, games, puzzles, etc. for a fraction of their cost. Plus, OPEN PLAY is FREE! It is the best of both - the experiences and the stuff! https://www.thewonderroomschool.com/membership
3. If you are overwhelmed or not sure how to start, I CAN HELP YOU kickstart your decluttering journey!!!
My educational background with an emphasis on creating spaces that are functional and engaging for young children gives me a unique perspective when considering kid spaces in homes.
I'm offering a special - just $60 for a 2 hour SPACE RESET for one kid space in your home. We will work together to create a more settled space.
(available for families living within 20 minutes of The Wonder Room)
Pick a Space: playroom, child bedroom, craft/school supplies, drop-zone, a closet, children's book collection, toy storage area, etc.
Pick a Date and Time: That works best for you. When children are NOT at home.
Email me to schedule your SPACE RESET TODAY!!!!
IT IS REALLY THAT EASY
Take the first step!
This special is good for those who schedule their SPACE RESET before December 1st!
Let's get started moving forward,